聪明老人幸福十诫（转载）

转载     一篇大哥转发来的文章，让我们这些老人和所有即将要老的人自勉：  不晓得作者是谁，所以无法署名，不过可以确定作者是位极有智慧的人士。 一 不要再替成年子女操心，才不会啐啐念。     Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters. 二 不要再将成年子女当成未成年来监护，以免招人怨。     Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints. 三 不必事事“非知道不可”，尊重已成年子女的隐私权、自主权。     No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children. 四 不要再以儿、孙为生活重心，寻找自己的园地，才不至天天望穿秋水。     Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily. 五 不要逢人就诉苦，宁可写作、画画、练功、唱歌，以艺术、创作升华情绪。     Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across. 六 不要凡事抱怨，多欣赏、感谢别人为取悦妳所做的努力。     More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you. 七 不要因孙辈和子女媳婿争执冲突，这样只会恶性循环，害了妳的孙辈。     Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren. 八 不要因为病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，领了药要服药，治不好的要忍耐。     Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure. 九 不要疑心病太重，要感激还愿意留在你身边的人，免得最后连他也走了！     Don’t be skeptical to others to much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually. 十 要有坚定的信仰，对未来抱着开心、乐观的态度。     Be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future